How full is your bucket?
After reading the book “How full is your bucket”, my youngest was 7 at the time and he showed how well he understood the process one night when we were out for dinner and he smoothly and gorgeously told our waitress how pretty she looked. Her face lit up like a Christmas tree and I am sure she will remember that forever. He turned to me and said “it’s alrighty mummy, I was just filling her bucket”.